A while ago, a friend who has been married more than 50 years shared a fun little tip with me. Get a mini-marker board with a pen and eraser. Place it somewhere “private,” like a closet or drawer, where your husband will see it. Then use it to write appreciative notes to your spouse.
On ours, I wrote “I love you because…” and we take turns writing little notes to each other.
I show you the blank version because the messages can be rated, ahem, PG-13. 🙂
This is one of those things where you determine to give without return. Your husband may feel uncomfortable writing messages. But keep at it, and who knows! At any rate, it’s a good chance to encourage and compliment him.
Have fun with it!